For those of a certain age the title of thIs post will bring back memories of 1989 cinema and “The Dead Poets Society” a classic film with many a meaning intertwined throughout. A certain irony that it also stars Robin Williams whose own struggles before his death are well known and relevant to the underlying themes of my blog.
Todd Anderson one of the characters has a number of issues but in this scene
we see John Keating as the English teacher inspire Todd to see that he can speak out publicly and he has the desire and passion inside himself.
Later at the end of the film in this scene
after Keating has been sacked following the suicide of Neil Perry and the pupils have been forced to turn on Keating, we see Todd Anderson finally find the courage to stand on his desk and repeat the Walt Whitman line “O captain, my captain” almost as a final hurrah and respect to Keating for what he inspired in the boys.
In an earlier scene we saw Keating tell the boys “in this class you can call me Mr Keating or if you’re slightly more daring, O captain my captain.”
This was as he inspired the boys to “seize the day” (Carpe Diem) or ” gather ye rosebuds whilst thee may” from the Robert Herrick poem.
I have loved this film ever since it’s release.
As a 19 year old in 1989 it spoke to me and has been a film I have watched numerous times over the years.
During the last 12 months I have reflected on what this film now means to me and whilst it may not be the intention of the films writer and director these scenes and the whole film particularly inspired me to ensure I speak out and talk about my experiences.
Speaking out takes courage and conviction and bravery and we know that men in particular find it hard to speak about their mental health issues.
Statistics tell us:
In 2017, 5,821 suicides were recorded in Great Britain, of these 75% were males. Suicide represents the largest cause of death for men under 50. Ref
We will never know if making men’s mental health less of a stigma would have stopped some of these suicides but we know that doing nothing will never change the issue.
“O captain, my captain.”
Todd stands on his desk and addresses Keating as “O captain my Captain” because at that point Keating has inspired him to be more daring to stand up and speak out. This leads to a number of the boys standing on desks and addressing Keating as “O captain my captain”
Imagine if we can make speaking out about our own mental health less of a stigma, if we could all stand on the desk and shout O captain my captain and it not be seen as a strange thing to do?
Now this may seem a very strange post and a weird way to address my own depression and the issues we face over our mental health stigma but I am happy to be the one that stands on the desk, why not join me “O Captain my Captain”.
https://www.time-to-change.org.uk/asktwice
https://www.mentalhealth.org.uk/a-to-z/m/men-and-mental-health
https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/your-stories/man-up-getting-more-men-in-mental-health/